Bumble’s latest collaboration is with none other than Teyana Taylor, introducing Luv2SeeIt. The first installment concerns socialite Lori Harvey who spills everything tea on the date on her terms.
Harvey has never been one to share her perspective with the public — though that hasn’t stopped Twitter and Instagram from formulating opinion pieces about her past relationships with Future and Michael B. Jordan.
But still, she kept it real, and as a true humble queen would, she gave herself a little slack when controlling her toxic behaviors.
Read on for more from Harvey’s perspective.
On what makes her feel powerful: “Don’t compromise my values, my standards and my demands,” she said. “I am not doing anything that will compromise my peace and happiness… Keep your power, do not give your power to anyone. That’s what I think is the key to being truly happy, in or out of a relationship.”
One thing she wishes she knew sooner: “I was actually a terrible communicator – I didn’t know… I just didn’t realize it was that bad. But I have learned. So that’s something I’ve been actively working on.
On the green flags: “Transparency, openness, communication and not trying to beat around the bush.”
On the red flags: “If you’re too close to your ex…”
Regarding its terms: “What I want to do, however, I want to do – I will do it. And if it no longer serves me, I will move on.”
For regrets in love: “You learn so much in the process, so I wouldn’t trade the knowledge I have for anything.”
Watch the full episode above.